【摘要】：自古以來,婆媳關(guān)系都是一種最微妙、最難處的家庭成員關(guān)系。婆媳關(guān)系的好壞對(duì)于家庭成員間是否可以和諧相處起著至關(guān)重要的影響。婆媳關(guān)系已成為影響家庭和諧、社會(huì)和諧的重要因素之一。 婆媳間的沖突,一直都是人們探討的話題之一。學(xué)術(shù)界對(duì)于婆媳沖突的研究,主要是從倫理學(xué)、社會(huì)學(xué)、文學(xué)、人類學(xué)等方面開展,研究內(nèi)容主要包括對(duì)婆媳沖突的原因分析、探討解決婆媳矛盾的方法等。而當(dāng)今社會(huì)婆媳關(guān)系的現(xiàn)狀及人們對(duì)婆媳沖突的態(tài)度研究卻很少涉及。 因此,本研究從已婚青年角度出發(fā),考察他們對(duì)于婆媳沖突的態(tài)度。以了解已婚青年群體對(duì)婆媳沖突當(dāng)事人行為的接受程度,及對(duì)丈夫處理方式的選擇偏向的態(tài)度。本研究的目的是使人們更清楚的了解已婚者對(duì)婆媳沖突的態(tài)度,為婚姻心理輔導(dǎo)提供參考。本研究主要從以下三層次開展。 研究一采用文獻(xiàn)調(diào)查法,對(duì)婆媳關(guān)系、婆媳沖突以往的相關(guān)文獻(xiàn)進(jìn)行分析整理,總結(jié)出容易引發(fā)婆媳沖突的生活事件,為研究二的視頻剪輯提供文獻(xiàn)依據(jù)。 研究二利用實(shí)驗(yàn)法,考察已婚青年對(duì)婆媳沖突的態(tài)度�；谘芯恳坏慕Y(jié)果,在婆媳沖突的電視劇中截取因家務(wù)瑣事、經(jīng)濟(jì)方面而發(fā)生的婆媳爭執(zhí),及因此事而引發(fā)的夫妻爭執(zhí)的視頻片段作為實(shí)驗(yàn)材料。要求被試在看完每段視頻后,回答與視頻相關(guān)的問題。視頻問題主要涉及了對(duì)視頻中婆婆、媳婦和丈夫行為的接受程度,對(duì)丈夫處理方式的選擇偏向等。 研究三運(yùn)用自我參照效應(yīng)的R/K研究范式,考察已婚青年對(duì)母親及配偶的參照效應(yīng),旨在考察已婚青年是與配偶的聯(lián)結(jié),還是與母親的聯(lián)結(jié)更為緊密一些。從自我概念角度來解釋已婚青年男女對(duì)婆媳沖突態(tài)度出現(xiàn)差異的原因。 通過研究,得出如下結(jié)論: (1)已婚男性對(duì)婆婆、丈夫行為或觀念的接受程度高于已婚女性。 (2)已婚女性對(duì)媳婦行為或觀念的接受程度高于已婚男性。 (3)已婚女性希望配偶在處理方式選擇上均偏向自己。 (4)在處理方式的選擇上,已婚男性有所不同。單獨(dú)面對(duì)配偶時(shí),已婚男性會(huì)偏向配偶;而面對(duì)母親時(shí),多數(shù)男性會(huì)出現(xiàn)偏向母親或逃避行為。 (5)多數(shù)已婚女性認(rèn)為夫妻共同財(cái)產(chǎn)理應(yīng)由夫妻進(jìn)行管理,而已婚男性則沒有明顯的態(tài)度差異,近一半的男性持無所謂的態(tài)度。 (6)已婚男性在理智上認(rèn)同妻子不想婆婆管理夫妻共同財(cái)產(chǎn)的原因是因?yàn)楦械侥赣H越權(quán)了,但是在行為上卻以母親為首要考慮對(duì)象。 (7)已婚青年在整體上均出現(xiàn)了自我參照效應(yīng)、母親參照效應(yīng)及配偶參照效應(yīng)。表明已婚青年的自我中包含有母親和配偶,母親和配偶在已婚青年的自我概念中處于同等重要的地位。相比較而言,已婚男性與母親的親密度相對(duì)較高,而已婚女性與配偶的親密度相對(duì)較高。
[Abstract]:The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been one of the most delicate and difficult family relationships since ancient times. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law plays an important role in the harmonious relationship between family members. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become one of the important factors affecting family harmony and social harmony. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been one of the topics discussed by people. The academic research on the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is mainly carried out from the aspects of ethics, sociology, literature, anthropology and so on. The contents of the research mainly include the analysis of the causes of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the exploration of methods to solve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. However, the current situation of mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship and people's attitude to the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are seldom studied. Therefore, from the perspective of married youth, this study examines their attitudes towards conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In order to understand the acceptance of the behavior of the married youth group to the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the attitude of the choice of the way of handling the husband. The purpose of this study is to make people understand the attitude of married people to the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and to provide reference for marriage counseling. This study is mainly carried out from the following three levels. In the first study, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were analyzed and sorted out, and the life events that could easily lead to the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were summarized, which provided the literature basis for video editing of study two. The second study investigated the attitude of married youth to the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law by means of experimental method. Based on the results of study one, video clips of disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law over household chores, economic issues and disputes between husband and wife were intercepted in TV series of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflict as experimental materials. The subjects were asked to answer questions related to the video after watching each video. The video problem mainly involves the acceptance of mother-in-law, wife and husband's behavior in the video, and the choice of the husband's way of handling and so on. In the third study, by using the R / K paradigm of self-referential effect, we investigated the referential effect of married youth on their mother and spouse. The purpose of the study was to find out whether married youth were more closely connected with their spouses or mothers. From the angle of self-concept, this paper explains the differences in the attitude of married young men and women towards the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The conclusions are as follows: (1) married men are married to their mother-in-law. The acceptance degree of husband's behavior or idea is higher than that of married woman. (2) married woman's acceptance of wife's behavior or idea is higher than married man's. All the choices are in favor of themselves. (4) in the choice of treatment, Married men are different. When facing a spouse alone, married men tend to favor their spouse, while in the face of a mother, most men tend to favor their mother or avoid behavior. (5) most married women believe that the couple's common property should be managed by the husband and wife. There was no significant difference in attitude among married men, and nearly half of men held an indifferent attitude. (6) married men rationally agreed that their wives did not want their mother-in-law to manage the common property of the couple because they felt that the mother had overstepped her authority. However, the mother is the primary consideration in behavior. (7) married youth have self-reference effect, mother-reference effect and spousal reference effect as a whole. It shows that the self of married youth includes mother and spouse, and the mother and spouse are equally important in the self concept of married youth. In comparison, married men had relatively higher affinity with their mothers, while married women had higher affinity with their spouses.
【學(xué)位授予單位】：河北師范大學(xué)
【學(xué)位級(jí)別】：碩士
【學(xué)位授予年份】：2011
【分類號(hào)】：C913.1

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