本文選題：議婚 + 金玉緣　； 參考：《中國圖書評論》2012年05期

【摘要】：正議婚集,錢基厚輯撰,鉛印線裝,非賣品,1935金玉緣譜,錢基博編,石聲淮寫錄,石印線裝,非賣品,1942錢基厚嫁女兒,雖然仍是"父母之命,媒妁之言",但其中的變化已然顯露。寬而言之,《議婚集》展現(xiàn)出了某些現(xiàn)代精神:第一,尊重子女的意愿,即使在鐘元故出難題的情況下,兩位老人也未放棄"愛子為計深遠(yuǎn)"的古訓(xùn),多方勸導(dǎo)說服,拳拳愛護(hù)子女之意,盡于言表。第二,開誠布公,在男女雙方了解過程中,不掩飾,不護(hù)短,倡導(dǎo)"知己知彼"、"識性同居"諸義,可謂諄諄教誨,期許甚殷。第三,講求教育策略,并不擺家長威風(fēng),武斷一切,以已之意替子
[Abstract]:We are discussing marriage collection, Qian Ji-hou compilation, lead print, non-selling article 1935, Jin Yu Yuan Yuan spectrum, Qian Jibo editor, Shi Sheng-huai writing record, stone print line dress, non-selling goods 1942 Qianji Hou married daughter, although it is still "the order of the parents." The words of matchmaker, but the changes in them have already been revealed. Broadly speaking, some modern spirits have been revealed in the "discussion on Marriage". First, respect for the wishes of the children. Even under the difficult circumstances of Zhong Yuan, the two old people have not given up the old admonition that "loving their son is a profound plan," and have been persuading and persuading them in many ways. The meaning of caring for your children with your fist is as much as you can say. Second, openness, in the process of understanding men and women, do not cover up, do not protect weaknesses, advocate "know their own enemy", "sexual cohabitation" of the meaning, it can be said to inculcate, expect very much. Third, emphasize the education strategy, do not put on the authority of the parents, arbitrary everything, with the will to replace the children
【作者單位】： 湖南科技學(xué)院國學(xué)研究所;
【分類號】：K892.22;K26
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